It seems like everywhere you turn there is a new wonder-cure for all your troubles with women. Miracle plans, nonsense tips and tricks, DVD training programs and in-field boot camps.
The truth is, yes, some of them do work. And a good number of them will help you get your love life back on track. The five sources below are a great way to learn about what women really want, how to approach them, how to attract them and how to act when you have one (or more, depending on your lifestyle).
Female Friends – As a single guy, it is almost imperative that you have good female friends, and more importantly, that they are like the women that you are interested in – for instance, successful, smart, funny, etc. A circle of good female friends can help you attract women in a number of ways, including helping you with fashion, home décor, learning what women like in a man (and find attractive) and even introduce you to their friends, or women that they meet that they know you would like.
Other Men Who Are Successful With Women – No matter where you live, or who you are, you have access to other men who are extremely successful with women – they can approach the women they want, talk to them, attract them and date with what seems like superhuman ease. Some of these men are naturals (almost born to know how to succeed in this part of their life) and others have dedicated years of their lives (and probably a lot of money) to learning and practicing the techniques they use. The best part is that most of these men will be more than willing to teach you the things they know, and they are often great teachers. If you do not want to ask them, you could simply observe them, and see what they do and how it works for them.
The Mystery Method – Mystery is perhaps the most prominent man when it comes to the Venusian Arts (his term for seduction, or the Pick-up Arts). He has dated some of the world’s most amazing women (in beauty, success and intelligence). His entire method is now available to men like you on DVD, in his E-Book (The Mystery Method) and in group boot camps, where men like you work directly Mystery and his team of instructors in the field (the real world), learning how to approach and attract women.
Double Your Dating – DYD is the brainchild of David DeAngelo. David D is one of the world’s most prominent pick-up artists. His E-Book, DVD programs and live seminars have helped thousands of men build more confidence, become strong, more attractive men, and live fulfilling lives of success in romance and business that they were destined for. David D has a number of incredible programs that will help you work on everything from your techniques to approach women to building a strong inner-game that you can use to demand, and realize success with women, and every other facet of your life. David D professes a key point that will really hit home for most men – you cannot attract the kind of strong, independent women you want without having the rest of your life in order, and your life’s goal clearly in your focus.
Practice, Experience & Observation – No matter what you learn, or how much you pay to get the skills to attract women, nothing can replace the power of practice, experience and observation. By watching other men successfully attract women, practicing the techniques you learn, and building upon your own successes (and especially your failures) you will be able to increase your own abilities to approach and attract women and find that success was hiding within you the whole time.
The truth is that this list could have been much longer. There are literally hundreds of books, incredible self-help programs and experts who are willing and able to help you to build the confidence and success you desire with women. Moreover, a good many of these resources are well worth the investment, but the five on this list are all highly recommended, and have work for millions of men just like you around the world.