The not forgotten Joe, he is the one of the many children that have disappeared without a trace. Collectively however, they number far too few for this country’s government to care that they are of the missing. They have slipped through the cracks. For the most part; each one has parents who truly love them; some may also have a brother or sister.
When taken, these kids were not traumatized in any way, manner or form. This extraction of a future with each one’s heritage completed with surgical precision.
So then, what efforts have these parents made to find them? The answer is none whatsoever. They are actually the receivers of these children. The described mother and father are adoptive parents. They in essence authorized the process required to procure their Joseph.
This Joe is an infant boy or girl whose biological mother placed for adoption. Most will grow to lead healthy productive lives. However, he or she have an unknown biological father whose identity they will one day seek.
How will these parents by means of adoption, answer a possible ten to eleven year old child’s heartfelt questions?
Respectively, most of these people prepared for a day of such revelation. And accordingly, most will have the proper answer to each question and circumstance. However, some will catch themselves in a dilemma. If planning to adopt, which category will you be in? I believe this is why you need to read the following perspective. The perspective of my view of the adoption statutes in place, and the moral issues involved.
How do I rate as an authority on the subject? I am the birth father in a case of a wrongful adoption. All that I ask, is that before going through with the noble and humanitarian act of adoption, that you place yourself as Devils Advocate and/or wrongful adoption birth father.
That I may say, if every future adoptive parent would see though my eyes, there would be far less, “they stole my baby” stories circulated throughout the country. That said…
These truths withstanding, in today’s world everyone has heard the arguments, “Adoption! For whose sake?” or, “Is it Adoption, or is it Kidnapping?” It is these subjects where application of law and boundary of ethical standard is difficult to place.
The moral compass of the adoption agency or adoption attorney can dictate the answers you will give to your children when the aforementioned day arrives.
An adoption can only be finalized with the adoptive parents signature. By signing this document they condone agree to the methods, ways and means used in the acquisition of their child. It is at this point that they take responsibility.
This is why I stress the importance of getting involved with the facilitators of your pending adoption of child.
You need not be an attorney or at all schooled in law. Your conscious is the only thing needed other than documented or recorded phone calls.
1. Ask your adoption attorney that you would like to peruse medical records.
2. Ask your adoption that you would like to be informed of any contacts with anyone pertaining to the adoption.
3. The key is be informed, “Remember, only you can prevent wrongful adoption!