Low self esteem is something that almost everyone goes though who has had a difficult life. Victims of abuse often have low self esteem. People who have been treated horrible throughout life often end up with loser abusive boyfriends or husbands. Here are four tips on how to cope with low self esteem.
Low self esteem can be quite damaged to the point of needing therapy for years. It can be so damaged to the point of where we settle for anyone simply because we feel that we do not feel lovable. We often try to love whoever will love us since our self esteem is so shot that we don’t feel that we deserve anything better. Since most of the time we have never had anything better or to compare it to. We often fall for anyone who takes time to talk to us and tells us that we are special. This is due to the low self esteem that we crave for someone to love us and have the desire for anyone to love us.
We often fall into the trap of going from one lousy relationship to another due to our low self esteem. We must pull ourselves up again and start over in life. We can not simply go from one man to another otherwise we will just end up in the same bad situation again. We can build self esteem only when we are ready to move on with life and have enough encourage from others for support during the difficult nights.
Low self esteem may cause us to doubt everything around us. We often doubt whether anyone could ever love us for who we are or have become due to whatever caused the low self esteem in the first place. Some situations low self esteem can make us just another target for an abusive person to hurt us again.
Abusive people often rely on low self esteem because he or she knows that you won’t leave them. If you get enough courage to leave them then he or she will think that eventually you will come crawling back to them. They will be caught off guard if you walk out the door and never come back when you are strong enough to break away from the abuser.
It is important to get low self esteem issues taken care. You don’t want people to take advantage of you and walk all over you due to it. You want to be able to stand up for yourself. Do not tolerate anymore damage to you no matter who or what the situation is.
Never be scared to call the police on anyone who emotionally abuses you. In some states you can have someone arrested for emotional abuse since it is a form of domestic abuse. It is emotional abuse which is a form of abuse. Tell yourself that you don’t and won’t tolerate anymore emotional abuse from anyone.