You look over at your wife and you wonder why you married her. You remember that she used to make your head turn. In the past, being with your wife was more important than spending time with your friends. But lately, you’ve just been trying to find other things to do and other places to go.
Don’t be embarrassed, this has happened to many couples. Sometimes a married woman becomes very busy in her regular duties, especially if she has children, and sometimes forgets that it is still important to make herself presentable and be ladylike to her spouse.
It’s not time to end your marriage just because you’re not presently attracted to your wife. The bottom line is that if you married her there had to be something that attracted you to her in the beginning. Hopefully, it was more than a physical attraction.
Although, we can’t change who or what is attractive to us physically, we can avert our attention to things that our partners have that are attractive. It will take some effort, but it will basically be a choice you make to focus on the positive aspects of your wife.
It could be the way she cares for the children, cooks, or shows concern for family members. Whatever it is, it will be your responsibility to find it. It is important not to look on other women who already possess qualities that you find attractive. Focusing on other women will just avert your attention away from your wife.
You should buy your wife negligees that you would like to see her in and take her away for a rendezvous to a one-night stay at a hotel. The new environment and atmosphere is bound to trigger some excitement in both of you.
Also, don’t forget to treat her to a salon visit and ask her to try a new hairdo. Whenever women come from the beauty salon they feel good about themselves and will likely display a need to go somewhere to show off their new style.
Keep in mind, you vowed to God for better or worse. I believe if you consider your union and the affect that it has on your children, family and friends you will find that it is worth the effort to remain married regardless of the circumstances.
God established marriage and He honors it. Just because we have shortcomings and don’t always keep physically fit for our spouses does not give us an excuse to break our vow an separate from our spouse.
It is important that you recognize your flaws as well. Being in tune to your shortcomings will help you be more tolerable of hers. Since we all have areas that we need improvement, we should refrain from harsh judgment of others.
Without being critical, you can inspire her to be beautiful for you again even if it is from the inside first. After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Behold the beauty of your wife.