Kissing is for loving what cold is for ice cream. It’s the stuff that keeps all the gooey goodness together. But what to do when your partner lacks the lip finesse you desire? Is your man a bad kisser? Teach him some sizzling new tricks. He won’t even know it!
He may or may not have the body of a Greek hero and the wallet of Donald Trump, but he has to be a good kisser! Bad kissing can be a real problem even if the sex is steamy. You have probably already experienced these bad kissers. The Face Swallower, the Tooth Crasher and dare I say it? The Pecker. Boo! Two thumbs down! But what do you do when you love are in love with a bad kisser? You teach your man some new tricks!
Tip #1 Teach By Example!
When he leans in for the kill, say, “Let me, kiss you.” Tell him to sit back and relax. Kiss him like you want to be kissed. Touch his face, take your time and really sock it to him. Then say, “That was nice. I like it when we kiss like that. Your turn!” Be patient with him, every couple of days do the same thing. Grab his face and say, “Let me, kiss you.” He’s not going to say no. You’ll have lose some timidity, take the bull by the horns and do it, but you can teach your man how to kiss. Just like you like it. Most men are not going to appreciate the direct, “Baby, you suck at kissing.” You’ll have to teach by example. Don’t even let him know you’ve got him in kissing rehab!
Tip #2 Practice The Lean In
Lean in like you are going to kiss your man on the lips, but kiss his neck instead. It’s a proven fact that lovers imitate each other. If you want your man to kiss your neck, more, kiss his. After a few kisses on different occasions, if he’s not getting your signals, tell him. “I like it when you kiss me like this.” He’s hot, but he’s no mind reader! Speak up!
Tip #3 Lip Accessories for Him
While you have your man in kissing rehab, buy him some sweet treats for his lips. Carmex, Burt Bees and kinds of great lip balms are out there. Help him keep those lips soft while he is in training.
Tip #4 The Games Kissers Play
Break out the blindfold! It’s time to play the kissing game. Blindfold your man and practice kissing. Tell him in this kissing game he has to copy what you do. Show him how you like it.
Tip #5 Touching the Kisser
When he kisses you the way you like, respond with extra touching. He’ll put two and two together. Touch him in ways that you like know he likes as a positive response to his positive kissing.