Women have a keen eye for details, especially when it comes to observing the opposite sex in a natural setting. Theoretically speaking, different women will notice different things, but there are some observances that are universal. Want to know what they are? Stay tuned.
The wandering eye: If we notice you looking at everything around you, while inadvertently avoiding our gaze, we instinctively know something is amiss. It can signal anything from boredom, nervousness, or even worse that you are looking for a better opportunity.
The way you look at us: The eyes are the window to the soul and we can tell a lot by your gaze. We can sense when you are ‘totally’ into us, smitten, fascinated, in love, or flat out ready to flee the room. Non-verbal behavior is extremely telling, and when the behavior doesn’t jive with what you are saying, we will trust the non-verbal every time. Our instincts in this area are keen. Another point to mention is the intensity of your gaze. Do you smolder? Are your eyes slightly squinted? This tells us that you are major hot for us. Really… it does!
The way you (touch or don’t) touch us: If you place your hand on the small of our backs when we are walking out of a room, or before being seated, it shows masculine protectiveness that every woman craves. When you use any opportunity to touch us gently, whether it’s a caress to the neck, a hand slightly curled around our waist, or just resting your hand on top of ours, it shows warmth and affection. We just know that you are definitely into us.
The flow of conversation: When conversation is lively and engaging, there is obvious chemistry. We sense that we are intellectual equals who have a lot in common, and it’s a major red flag when this aspect of the date is missing. Women are master communicators and when the communication and conversation piece of the puzzle feels off-kilter, our radars perk up.
The tone of your voice: Are your words kind and soothing, or does your voice resemble sandpaper on silk? We love to be caressed by your voice and choice of words, and are much more concerned with how your voice makes us feel, rather than the precise words coming out of your mouth. Sometimes a voice has the ability to lull us into a calm sense of security. A velvety voice can even subconsciously spark our nether regions and shift us into overdrive.
Women tend to be ruled by the heart rather than the head, but never underestimate her intuition. We often ‘feel’ our way through the dating scene rather than analyzing it with our heads. At the end of the day we are going to rely more heavily on how we felt, rather than what we thought. It is not cliché’ to say that actions speak louder than words and that women are definitely paying attention and noticing the details!