So you, being a fine young lady, have met a wonderful man who said he would call you soon. You wait, you wonder, the telephone does not ring. As you begin to question if he was drafted in the Army, had a fatal accident, or suddenly turned gay it occurs to you that he may not be the problem. It’s you, it has to be. The mental anguish begins to cause beads of perspiration to rise on your forehead. Am I ugly? Fat? Bad breath? Body Odor? The answer is not to all of those is no (probably). The problem here is a lack of maturity, but not on your part.
To begin with, where did you meet the man who was supposed to call but never did? If you met him in a bar or nightclub, odds are he was drunk, or you were, and he was looking for a quick rendezvous. When he saw it was not going to happen, he needed an out, and getting your telephone number was an obvious exit. Perhaps the man met another woman after he spoke with you, and she had less moral restrictions and he went home with her. In any case giving your telephone number to a person you just met in a club is not a good idea.
When a woman gives here telephone to a man too quickly after meeting for the first time, some men may have second thoughts about calling someone who was too eager. In the man’s mind, this could mean an act of desperation. If the man thinks the woman is so desperate, the question becomes what is wrong with her that makes her so available so fast. He may not call because her is afraid of finding out the flaw.
A woman overly aggressive in her pursuit of a man may scare him off from the start. The man accepted the telephone number just to get rid of her without a public scene. Also, if the woman may not have been especially attractive either physically or emotionally, accepting her telephone number with no intention of calling is the best way to avoid an unpleasant altercation.
A woman who gave her telephone number to a man may end up being just another name and number in his little black book. He may have rated her at two stars out of five, and it will be a long wait for a call. The number may have been written incorrectly, and he can’t call the woman even if he wanted to. He could have lost the number. Maybe he is married or in a relationship.
Finally, the reason why some men never call when they say they will is that some men are childish, immature jerks. They’ll never grow up emotionally and don’t give a damn about the feelings of others. If this is the case, be glad he never called you.